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4. Permissible Behavior and Normal Trouble
If the openness of patrons and their encounters in the public drinking
place and the circumscription of those encounters in time and space give
a tentative and superficial character to bar sociability, they also permit
a latitude of behavior typically greater than that permitted in many other
public settings.
[72]
The public drinking place is often treated as a setting
where a variety of self-indulgent and otherwise improper acts can be engaged
in, Insofar as one is freed from any expectations of deference within the
public drinking place, one is freed of many of the converse expectations
of demeanor as well.[73] What goes on in the bar is localized in time and place,
and one need not anticipate being held accountable for one's conduct at
some later time or in some other setting. As a result, behavior which is
either permissible or constitutes no more than normal trouble in the bar
encompasses a broad range of activities that are often open to sanction
in other, more serious public settings.
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A variety of scenes and spectacles can ensue in public drinking places
without penalty for those involved. Short of physical violence, little
will provoke sanction from either management or other patrons, and even
acts of violence, if short and quickly over, may be virtually ignored once
they have happened. The following incident, from a bar patronized primarily
by young middle-class people, provides an extreme example of the social
sang froid of the public drinking place.
A young man and a young woman, had been sitting together chatting
and occasionally dancing for about an hour and a half. Suddenly the man
hit the girl in the face, knocking her from the bar stool onto the floor.
The general hum of conversation that had been going on among the eight
or ten people in the bar stopped for about thirty seconds, during which
time the man walked out. No one made any attempt to stop him. One patron
quite casually went over to the girl to help her up and the bartender held
out a damp towel for her to put to her face. The rest of the patrons went
back to their conversations as though nothing had happened. The girl got
up, said something to the bartender, and then went to the bathroom. She
came out, about ten Ininutes later, her face back in order, and sat down
at the bar, where she remained for about fifteen minutes longer, No one
made any further comment on the scene. After she had left, P.C. asked one
of the patrons sitting next to him about it and was told, "They've been
living together for months. That happens all the time."
Quarrels of varying intensity between patrons, which sometimes almost routine
events in public drinking places, may be casually attended to by other
patrons or virtually ignored, But in either case there is typically little
sense of impropriety accorded to the behavior of those involved.
A couple in their late forties who had been chatting with another
couple at the far end of the bar sud-
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denly burst into an argument that was audible throughout the
bar. Neither of the bartenders nor any of the other patrons seated around
the bar appeared bothered by their disturbance, and the six or seven patrons
seated around the piano bar continued singing, without even glancing over
at them.
Wives who enter in search of errant husbands may be accorded the tacit
right to vent their anger there and then and treat the public drinking
place as if it were no different from their own home.
Three men came in and had two rounds when the wife of one of
them entered, visibly upset, and began yelling very loudly, "I don't care
for all this and you know that. Drinking and running around." She continued
haranguing him for five or ten minutes and then left. There were five other
patrons in the bar at the time, but no one even glanced over at the disputants.
Sometimes an attempt is made to minimize the offense or embarassment such
scenes might provide for the patrons not involved. But typically this is
done in a way that does not infringe on the right of those involved to
carry on their altercation as they see fit. Thus activities handled in
unequivocal terms in most settings may, in the public drinking place, be
treated with a tact and finesse that seem unwarranted by their nature.
A man at the far end of the bar said something to the woman
he was with and she began yelling, "You have no right to call me that.
I'll have your ass thrown out of here. I'll have you strung up." He responded
in kind with the same volume, and the quarrel continued between them for
about ten minutes. In the beginning none of the other patrons paid any
attention to them and the bartender continued chatting with one of the
other patrons. But after a while some
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of the patrons started glancing down at them and lookina a
bit uncomfortable. When this began to happen, the bartender went over
and started the juke box, turning the volume up to mask their voices. When
new patrons came in the bartender would indicate for them to sit away
from the two, who sporadically continued their quarrel for over an hour.
There were thirteen people in the bar, a generally "refined" middle-class
establishment. A woman in her forties, apparently very drunk, and her escort
were arguing. Her voice began to get louder and louder, and then she demanded
another beer. Ralph, the bartender, said to her, very quietly, that he
wouldn't serve her. Then she became angry and yelled, "I've been his common
law wife for two and a half years and he wants to go across the street
for a piece of pussy"
Ralph tried to ignore them, but she kept shrieking angrily at her
escort. Finally the bartender went down to them and said to her escort,
"Hank, take her out of here." The woman said that she would not go and
screamed at Hank, "Why don't you fuck him [Ralph]." Ralph then went and
turned the juke box volume up very loud, to cover their voices. He seemed
very tense and one of the other women at the bar asked him if he wanted
to play poker dice for the joke box with her. She won and he said, "Play
anything, just as long as it's loud."
He went down to the woman again to talk to her, but whatever he said
was covered by the music from the Juke box. Soon thereafter her escort
left, after first trying to pull her with him. Ralph then came down to
where the majority of the other patrons were seated and tried to make a
joke out of it, saying to one man, "Why don't you take old red-nose down
there to some other bar for me. Do a bartender a favor." He repeated this
two more times down the bar, changing the destination to a well-known,
very elegant down-town bar.
When he went back to the woman she yelled at
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him "If you want me to leave, call the police, call the Police!"
Ralph came back down the bar, shaking his head, and she finally left about
ten minutes later.
The mutual involvement exhibited in displays of affection is equally permissible
within the public drinking place. Although dark and secluded booths may
provide areas where patrons can neck and pet unnoticed, such activity is
not necessarily confined to unobservable regions but may be carried on
in full view of all others present. It is not unusual to see couples dancing
in close bodily contact or women sitting on the laps of their companions
along the bar, nor is there a sense of impropriety associated with couples
seated along the bar holding hands, resting their heads on one another's
shoulders, hugging or kissing or occasionally fondling one another in
even more intimate ways.
A couple in their mid-thirties were sitting along the bar,
just to the right of me. They had been talking softly and holding hands
when we got there, but soon he was fondling her breasts and kissing her--all
quite openly.
An exception to the acceptability of displays of affection in public drinking
places is found most notably in homosexual
bars. This is apparently not because it is an affront to the others
present, but rather the sex of those involved provides
legal grounds for the revocation of the establishment's license. Thus
while the court may rule that regardless of whether they are heterosexual
or homosexual in nature, "any public display which manifests sexual desires
. . . may be and historically has been suppressed and regulated in a moral
society,"[74] in actual practice the legal suppression and regulation of such
activity in public drinking places is typically encountered only in homosexual
bars. Quite obviously this does not mean that
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there are no displays of affection in homosexual bars, but only that,
in the interest of protecting the license of the establishment, management
and patrons alike may actively attempt to control or conceal such activity
if the likelihood of official discovery is great.
Like unnioderated mutual involvement, a variety of social faux-pas
may be committed with equanimity in the public drinking place. Patrons
may belch, stumble, fall asleep, or fall off bar stools, and such activity
is routinely accorded the same status as more socially acceptable activity.
In one establishment, the bartender attempted to gently rouse a patron
who had fallen asleep with his head and arms on the bar. When the bartender's
efforts were unsuccessful, the patron was left to sleep quietly and without
further comment on him or his activity. Finally, at closing time, he was
aroused and accorded the same "Good night" as the other patrons who had
been more actively attuned to the situation at hand. This is not to say
that social mishaps may not serve as the basis for remarks. Almost any
aspect of the passing scene may provide an item to be commented upon. But
when remarks are made about such activities, they characteristically do
not carry with them any negative evaluation of either the activity or the
situational presence of the actor in question. In an elegant and well-known
hotel bar one afternoon, a woman (seated at one of the tables with three
companions) had been laughing for an extended period of time in a very
shrill and audible manner. A man standing near me siniled and said rather
pleasantly, "She sounds like she's having a good time."[75]
Overindulgence and a variety of activities typically char. acterized
as effects of overindulgence, such as loss of motor
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control, excessive depression or elation, often carry little disapprobation
in the public drinking place.[76]
A man in his late fifties, rather disheveled in appearance
and quite apparently drunk, had been stumbling from one end of the bar
to the other. Eventually he and another man who also appeared somewhat
drunk began playing the bowling machine. Their game progressed in a slow
and exaggerated manner. with a number of mishaps, such as dropping the
ball and falling over the machine. There were others waiting to play,
but no one interfered with their game. Finally the second man wandered
off and the first man began asking some of the patrons standing around
the machine to finish the game with him. When they declined he would offer
to buy them a drink if they would play with him, and although no one complied,
no one appeared offended by his actions or disturbed by his state.
Collin, one of the patrons seated at the bar, was visibly intoxicated,
his body loose and somewhat out of control and his words loud and slurred.
Whenever the bartender came down to where he was seated, Collin would engage
in an elaborate pantomime of pouring a drink into his glass from a bottle
which he had in the pocket of his jacket, and then demanded in a very loud
voice that the bartender fill his glass for him. The bartender and the
woman seated one stool away from him would play along with him. Occasionally,
when he began to fall from his stool toward the woman, she would gently
prop him up again. When she noticed me looking over at him she smiled and
said, as though no further explanation for his behavior were necessary,
"Collin's on vacation."
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One of the men who could barely stand continued making the
rounds of the women seated at the tables, asking them to dance. Some of
the women would refuse him (as they would refuse some of the other men
who evinced better motor control), but others would accept and go out on
the dance floor with him.
Like overindulgence, other activities which in other settings might be
considered demeaning may be treated in public drinking places as nothing
more than "good, clean fun." In a crowded night spot, a portly gentleman
got up on the stage one evening to dance with the young entertainers. Foregoing
the customary movements of the dance, he simply strode around the entertainers
on the stage and occasionally fifted his stomach with a heaving movement
and smiled at the audience. At the end of his "number" he received a round
of applause from the audience. In the same establishment on another occasion,
the same indulgent treatment was accorded an attractive matron who got
up on the stage and engaged in a mock strip tease before over two hundred
patrons. In an, other bar, a patron who began to sing along with the guitar
players in a rather thin and quavering voice received such a tremendous
ovation from the other patrons that she went on with two encores, each
of which was treated with the same apparent appreciation as her first
attempt.
Not only may such rolereleases be pleasurable to those who engage
in them, but they may, in turn, be pleasurable for others to view. During
the course of the study, one public drinking place which features a strip
show instigated a policy by which one evening a week was to be "amateur
night" when housewives, teachers, nurses, sales clerks and secretaries
could be strippers for the evening at least. This amateur night became
one of the most popular features of the establishment. Indecorous conduct
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There were about nineteen people in the bar. A couple in their late
thirties were dancing in the middle of the room. The woman began to posture
in a mock-seductive way in front of the males along the bar, pulling her
dress up above her stocking tops and the like, occasionally saying in an
unserious tone of voice, "Oooo, aren't we awful!" But no one paid much
attention to her.
In the same sense, not only is verbal contact between unacquainted
males and females permissible in public drinking places but bodily contact
is permissible as well. A woman in a public drinking place who finds a
strange man's arm arolad her shoulder has little basis for expressing the
kind of moral indignation she could express at the same conduct outside
the bar; hence such behavior may be virtually ignored.
The limits on the range of behavior permissible in bars does, to a
certain extent, vary from establishment to establishment, and this variation
may constitute one dimension of the commonsense differentiation of types
of public drinking places. There are some bars in which potential patrons
may be refused admittance on the basis of improper dress, be ejected on
the basis of using improper language, or, if need be, be turned over to
the police if they act in an annoying manner. But there are other bars
in which dress, language, or exacerbation may go virtually unnoticed. Knowledge
of the actual range of permissible behavior in any given establishment
provides the potential patron with information usable not only for determining
the courses of action open to him within the establishment, but also as
a guide to inform him of what he can expect on the part of others and how
he is expected to respond to their course of activity.
Beyond the localization of encounters in time and space, additional
support for the wide range of behavior permissible
within the public drinking place is supplied by certain features of
the physical milieu. With very few exceptions, the interior
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of the public drinking place is at least obscured and is often completely
shielded from the view of those outside the premises. The events within
are thus exempted from any casual monitoring by nonparticipants. The street
windows of bars are customarily painted, heavily curtained, or completely
absent, and the door in most circumstances remains closed. For passersby,
casual observation of the happenings inside is virtually impossible. Anyone
wishing to view the scene within must make his presence known to those
who are there by at least partially, and often completely, entering the
premises. Since the public drinking place is shielded from casual observation,
there is little likelihood that those within or their activity will inadvertently
become a matter of public knowledge. Hence, behavior need not be geared
to the expectations governi g the proprieties of public places that are
more open to view.
Like the shielding of the interior from the street, the customary
minimal illumination of the public drinking place also lends support to
the range of behavior permissible within the setting by creating an atmosphere
of perpetual nighttime within the bar and providing a protective covering
of semi-darkness for those who populate its interior. The differences in
the proprieties governing daytime and nighttime behavior are effectively
abridged and the visibility of one's activity is diminished. At the same
time, part of the night atmosphere maintained in the public drinking place
may be in deference to a more general expectation governing behavior--that
drinking is more appropriate to the evening hours than to daylight and
that evening behavior may be, if not more licentious, at least looser
than daytime behavior.[77]
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Where the public drinking place is contained as a subsetting within
a larger setting, there may be variation in the extent to which its physical
milieu supports a latitude of behavior greater than that permitted in
the encompassing setting. When the bar is structurally separated by walls
and doors from the setting within which it is contained--as is generally
the case of bars located in transportation terminals and hotels and frequently
the case of bars located in restaurants-- the range of behavior permissible
in the establishment may be identical with that in public drinking places
that are structurally free-standing. However, even when the separation
between the encompassing setting and the subsetting is almost complete,
the larger setting may impart a special flavor to the pubilic drinking
places contained within it. Hotel bars, for example, are often characterized
as "notorious pickup bars" (although in fact not all of them are used primarily
in this way), presumably because of their location within the encompassing
setting. The "moral holiday," as Hayner characterizes hotel behavior,[78]
may be automatically applied to the subsetting as well.
In some public drinking places that are only partially or conventionally
separated from the encompassing setting, the effective visibility of the
behavior of the patrons of the subsetting may be reduced. Where full structural
separation is absent, the maintenance of different degrees of illumination
in the two settings is one of the prevalent means used to visually shield
the bar from its surroundings. When the bar area is made substantially
darker than the encompassing setting, not only is the night atmosphere
of the public drinking place maintained, but the events that take place
there are less visible to those present in the larger setting, although
they may still
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be audible. Shimilarly, contained bars may be partially separated
from a larger setting by partitions that expose no more than the legs and
feet of those present.
When the structural separation between the two settings is not complete,
the latitude of behavior is often less than in bars that are selfcontained,
particularly during the times when the encompassing setting is in use.
In such situations, extensive mutual involvement of either an argumentative
or an affectionate nature, as well as conduct which could be demeaning
or indecorous in the encompassing setting, may be curtailed for a number
of reasons.
In the first place, patrons may not care to display the gamut of behavior
fitting in the public drinking place before others not similarly engaged.
The definition of the subsetting as a public drinking place may of
course imply that whatever is routinely expected within that setting is
exempt from invidious comparison with what is fitting and proper in other
settings. Even those who are not involved may be expected to treat events
occurring in a bar as no less than the orderly and comprehensible behavior
associated with such a setting. However, those outside but viewing the
events within may not pay the respect to the setting that they should pay.
Those who view the public drinking place as questionable, may, when they
discover themselVes sharing the encompassing premises, feel justified in
displaying disdain for events in the subsetting and for the patrons in
it. For these outsiders, the bar (as well as those who patronize it and
their activities) may be beyond the boundaries of def. erence. For others
whose opinion of the public drinking place as a conventional setting is
less critical, their knowledge of the standing patterns of behavior associated
with bars may be summary and incomplete. Hence in good faith they may take
the behavior which they see as inappropriate to what they believe should
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that those not involved may negatively evaluate the activity permissible
to those who are involved, creating a source of possible embarrassment
for the latter and restraining their activities accordingly.
Finally, setting deference and embarrassment may flow in the other
direction as well. Those in a public drinking place may curtail the activities
permissible to them because, although such activities may be appropriate
within the subsetting, their nature may be such that they might disrupt
the behavior patterns of the larger setting or embarrass those in the larger
setting who are attuned to a different set of proprieties.
Biographies
In addition to the broader range of activities which can be treated as
proper and fitting in the public drinking place, the localization of bar
encounters in time and space may permit patrons to sever themselves from
their biographies in a number of ways. This feature is general to public
drinking places whether they are structurally self-contained or are a subsetting
within some larger conventional setting.[79]
Since the operative rules merely restrict patronage to those who have
reached legal drinking age, one need carry with him only those identity
papers that establish his date of birth, and even these papers need not
be shown unless his age is called into question by the management. Whatever
the other chat-
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acteristics of the patron's social identity, there is typically no
call for them to be publicly proclaimed, If names are exchanged between
interactants, they are typically given without benefit of surname. One's
work rarely serves as a topic of conversation, and as a general rule, aspects
of social position outside the bar carry little significance for those
within the bar. Ideological commitment need not be declared, because issues
of politics and religion generally are defined as outside the range of
acceptable subject matter for bar discourse. Unless one imports his companions
with him into the setting, to a great extent one can cut himself off within
the bar from whatever rightful past, present, or future he has outside
the bar.
At the same time, insofar as one's rightful biography need never be
brought out in the bar, and insofar as one can ex. pect that exchanges
therein will rarely if ever subject one to encounters outside the bar,
the patron is also at liberty to prefabricate an entire life for himself
with little likelihood that it will later be exposed as a sham. Thus the
patrons of the public drinking place can be people whose biographies are
more socially satisfactory, more exciting, or more exotic than they could
be in settings where more extensive and verifiable biographies are a requirement
for entrance, or settings where encounters carry with them an obligation
that present relationships be maintained or at least acknowledged at some
future time or in some other place. This is not to say that within the
bar no biographies with a factual referent ever exist, but only that within
the bar biographies without a factual referent may very easily exist.
In part, the new bif)graphies that can be spun for one's duration within
the bar are typically limited only by the ex. tent to which one can provide
a coherent, internally consistent presentation of self. Thus the very homely
young woman may be unable to claim to be a high-priced model if her physical
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range of other biographical material--literary agent, vocalist, heiress--which
she can put forth may be quite extensive. As one bar patron stated,
In a bar you can make all kinds of claims about yourself--just
as long as you use enough sense not to say things that whoever you're talking
to can see through immediately. I mean if I told you I was a writer you'd
probably know right away that it was a lie because my English just isn't
very good. But if I told you that I raced sports cars and then started
telling you about cars and racing and the like I could probably snow you
and you'd never know the difference.
But at the same time, there is a tacit agreement among bar patrons that
a certain amount of contradictory biographical material will be ignored,
so in fact bar patrons need not put too much effort into attempting to
maintain a consistent line during the course of any encounter.
Seven of us (who were unacquainted outside the bar) were sitting
around one of the tables for almost two and a half hours. During this time
Steve told us he was unemployed, that he was considering going to work
for a stock brokerage firm, that he was working in some sort of management
trainee program, that he had never been abroad, and that he found you could
make out better in Italy than in other European countries. The contradictions
apparently bothered no one, and even though he was making himself somewhat
objectionable on other grounds--specifically in his advances to one of the
other meWs female companion--no one called him down.
Thus while the number of former celebrities and people of note who may
populate any given bar at any time may be far out of proportion to the
number that actually exist outside the bar, little attention is paid to
this discrepancy. Since the creation of biographies in public drinking
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is so inexpensive, as a general rule any biographical claims that are
made are typically taken with a grain of salt by those to whom they are
presented. When a patron is claiming a biography that is rightfully his,
he may find that his statements are held in doubt and credit is not being
given where it is due.
Henry said, "I used to be a logger. I don't care if you
believe me or not, but it's true."
Every time Fred made a statement about himself either to me or
to Gil, who had joined us somewhat later, he would pull out some kind of
paper from his wallet in an attempt to document it. He pointed out very
carefully that on his driver's license it was stated he was not married,
showed a wage receipt as evidence that he did in fact work at a hospital,
and he looked for almost five minutes for a seaman's passport. When he
found it, he stated very pointedly, "You just can't buy these, you know!"[80]
While the patrons of public drinking places can exist without a valid biography
(or without any biography at all) with respect to their lives in the outside
world, some who patronize any given establishment regularly may create
or have created for them a kind of biographical reputation within the bar.
Regular patrons of a bar may find their presence and their activities within
the bar being strung together in a kind of narrative, eventually to be
read, as a statement attesting to the kind of person they are. Sometimes
this biography is localized a only within the bar, but sometimes it contains
imputations of more generalized attributes.
Those whose bar biography is localized to the bar itself
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form the general category of "bar characters" of which at least one
instance may be found in almost every establishment. Their "character"
status may be vested in them either by other patrons or by the employees
of the establishment, or by both. They themselves may never be made aware
of the fact that they have any special reputation within the bar.
The bartender and I had been talking for about half an hour
when a couple came in. The woman sat down at the comer booth and the man
ordered drinks for the two of them at the bar and carried them to the booth.
The bartender nodded to them and said to me, "There's the lovers." When
I asked him what he meant, he went on to say that they came in together
every Friday after work, sat in the same booth, ordered the same drink,
and always left by six o'clock. He went on to say that he and the waiter
"kind of think they're carrying on an affair, but of course We've never
said anything to them."
One of the patrons pointed an old man out to me and said, "He's the
character of this place. He comes in here every night, orders a pitcher
of beer, takes it to the same place down there, and drinks the whole thing.
. . . No, he never talks to anyone, just takes his pitcher of beer over
there and drinks it down."
The apparent scheduled regularity of bar behavior is probably the most
frequent basis for according bar character status to a patron. However,
this regularity must include more than mere regularity of patronage; the
patron's bar behavior must be in some way more broadly predictable. Merely
to come in at the same time each day is not sufficient to maintain bar
character status. Once inside, there must be no such variation in behavior
as talking to the bartender one day and to another patron another day,
or playing one song on the juke box one day and another the next time.
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the statement, "There he is, same time, same place, same drink," the
statement carries the implication that everything else he will do in the
bar will be similar to everything else he did last time and the time before,
and that he can be counted on to enact the same repertoire of behavior
in the future.
In establishments where such a bar character is among the clientele,
recognized by bartender and patrons alike, he may form the basis of an
ongoing joke between the bartender and the patrons. The time just before
his arrival may be noted by the bartender or a patron, who may say something
like, "Well, just about time for the mechanical man to arrive"; and the
bartender may say to him as he leaves, with apparent sincerity, "See you
again tomorrow," while he smiles at the patrons still seated at the bar
and they grin at one another.[81]
The category of bar characters is not exhausted by the mechanical patron.
It may also include those made notable by other types of activities, and
sexuality, luck, generosity, pugnacity, wit, and special knowledge may
all be used as the basis for defining the bar character. Patrons may come
to be labeled "the guy who always makes out with the chicks," "the big
spender," "Arnie, who always has a bag of jokes," and the like. However,
whether any particular bar character is to be treated as a hero, villain,
or fool is to a great extent dependent upon the ethos of the particular
establishment. The Don Juan who may be the hero of a pickup bar may be
viewed as the fool, or more likely the villain, of the home territory bar
where sexual accessibility is held in abeyance.
In contradistinction to the bar character whose bar biography is localized
to the establishment itself, patrons may also be invested with a biography
that is based on their patronage but that carries with it implications
of a character or way of life which exists outside the bar. Thus, for example,
a woman
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who patronizes the same establishment regularly but arrives each time
with a different male escort may eventually become known by others in the
establishment as a "loose woman," even though her deportment within the
bar is above question.[82]
Similarly, where there is a common set of biographical attributes shared
by most of the patrons of an establishment, the same set of attributes
may be attributed to others who patronize the bar and to those who work
there as well. In one homosexual bar which I patronized on a regular basis
during the course of the study, I was introduced to the co-owner one night
and informed that his wife was "a gay girl like you." In a skid-row bar
where I worked for a while as a barmaid, customers would frequently ask
me how long ago my husband ran off, apparently in an attempt to establish
the nature of the crisis which could account for my present situation.
In establishments where the clientele was generally "respectable," when
I would arrive alone I would frequently be asked how long I had been in
the city, the apparent implication of the question being that the only
reason I was there alone was that I knew no one to accompany me.
In general, the rightful biographies of patrons in public drinking
places can be held private, so that they are nobody else's business, or
they can be created fictitiously on the spot
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out of almost nothing. In either case, one's existence outside the
bar may be made discontinuous with his existence inside the bar, and whatever
he could be held accountable for by virtue of a verifiable, rightful biography
can be ignored in the public drinking place. And while within the bar one
can be vested with a reputation of one sort or another, the characteristic
feature of these bar-created reputations is that they have no consequences
outside the public drinking place; they are either irrelevant to one~s
life or discreetly treated as non-existent. Thus the events that take place
within the public drinking place may become an item in the patrons diary,
although not necessarily an item in his biography. The distinction between
biography and diary here rests upon what is taken to constitute a "biographical
fact." Goffman writes of biographies:
Anything and everything an individual has done and can actually
do is understood to be containable within his biography ... even if we
have to hire a biography specialist, a private detective, to fill in the
missing facts and connect the discovered ones for
us.[83]
However, although the totality of an individual's life may be containable
within his biography, there is clearly a selective process which takes
place, transforming some parts of his life into biographical facts and
other parts into irrelevancies. The diary, unlike the biography, may contain
the biographical facts and the trivia as well. The retrospective construction
of biographies may thus include a procedure of resorting, whereby information
which was once contained only in the diary becomes information which is
contained in both. But insofar as it can be assumed that what takes place
within the bar is not
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to be treated in the same way as are events of serious life, it can
also be assumed that behavior within the setting will be exempt from the
resorting procedure. Hence the conduct of patrons within the bar need not
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[72]
Woodard notes that dalliance and irresponsible enjoyment may well
ensue in settings where the importance of continuing interaction is low
and when conflicting interests are low. (James Woodard, "rhe Role of Fictions
in Cultural Organizations," Transactions of the New York Academy of Sciences,
Series 11, 6 [June, 1944] pp. 311-344, p. 326.) What takes place in the
public drinking place, however, may be "allow-able" only insofar as no
one present feels he has the right or is willing to take the responsibility
for sanctioning it. in this sense, what is treated here as latitude of
behavior may in fact be normal trouble.
[73]
Cf. Erving Goffman, "The Nature of Deference and Demeanor," American
Anthropologist, 58 (1956), pp. 473-502.
[74]
San Francisco Chronicle, January 21, 1960
[75]
The rule applicable in other public settings is found in Esquire
Magazine, The New Esquire Etiquette (New York: 1. B. Lippincott Co., 1959),
p. 285: "In public the best manners are the quietest. Jory not to attract
attention to yourself or to your friends. you woulcWt commit the high school
offense of loud talk and laughter in public."
[76]
The question of poise is in this sense held in abeyance, and hence any
embarrassment that might ensue from the loss of poise is out of the question.
See Edward Gross and Gregory P. Stone, "Embarrassment and the Analysis
of Role Requirements," American Journal of Sociology, 70 (1964)9 pp. 1-15;
and Erving Goffman, "Embarrassment and Social Organization," American Journal
of Sociology, 62 (1956), pp. 264-271.
[77]
As de Grazia notes, "Evening has always beenone of the most faithful
friends of free time. . . . Free-time activities may play on the edge of
morality. Work has restraints that men react against; living in society
involves restraints, too. Like petting, You might say, free-time activities
sometimes have to fall on that narrow strip where fun exists and morality
maintains a border in the law and the mores broadly conceived in their letter, spirit, application, history or anthropology."
Sebastian de Grazia, Of Time, Work and Leisure (Garden City, N.Y.: Anchor
Books, 1964), pp. 108, 404.
[78]
Norman H. Hayner, The Hotel (Chapel Hill, N. C.: University of North
Carolina Press, 1936), pp. 154-176.
[79]
Like pleasure cruises and carnivals, vacation resorts also have a
time-out aura about them like the public drinking place- Of such resorts
in the Catskills, David Boroff writes, "For a minority of guests, the week
at the resort is an exercise in role-playing. Released from the small Bronx
apartment and engulfed in a more spacious life, the salesman sometimes
becomes a sales manager, the small retailer a chain-store magnate, and
the stenographer an executive secretary." David Boroff, "The Catskills:
Still Having a Wonderful Time," Harper's Magazine (July, 1958), p. 59.
[80]
The provision of "concrete evidence," of course, need not be
c limited to the establishment of biographies with a factual referent.
It may in fact be put out in an attempt to substantiate a "line."
Cf. Margaret Chandler, The Social Organization of Workers in a Rooming House Area (unpublished Ph.D. dissertation, University of Chicago, 1948), p. 60.
[81]
Cf. Erving Goffman, The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life (University
of Edinburgh Social Sciences Research Centre Monograph No. 2, 1958), pp.
112-113, on team collusion.
[82]
This possibility may account for the fact that single women, more
than their married counterparts and more than males of either marital status,
tend to be "bar-drifters," who frequent a variety of bars rather than one
place in particular. In San Francisco, of those respond-ents who patronized
public drinking places, 43 per cent of the unmarried men stated that they
had a regular bar to which they went half the time or more, compared with
37 per cent of the married men, while only 26 per cent of the unmarried
women had a regular bar, compared with 35 per cent of the married women.
Alternatively, however, it may be that the single woman roams the terrain
of public drinking places in the company of unmarried men, who are very
likely to take her to their own regular bar, and hence she changes the
locale in which she drinks as she changes her escort. (Details on the sample
are found in Sherri Cavan, social Interaction in Public Drinking Places
[unpublished Ph.D. dissertation, University of California, Berkeley, 1965],
footnote 68, Chapter 2.)
[83]
Erving Goffman, Stigma (Englewood Cliffs, N.J.: Prentice Hall, rnc.,
1963), pp. 62-63. Emphasis added.
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