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3. Bar Sociability
Public drinking places are "open regions": those who are present,
acquainted or not, have the right to engage others in conversational interaction
and the duty to accept the overtures of sociability proffered to them. [57]
While many, and perhaps the majority, of conventional settings customarily
limit the extent of contact among strangers, sociability is the most general
rule in the public drinking place. Although the bar is typically populated
primarily by strangers, interaction is available to all those who choose
to enter.
The physical door through which one enters a drinking establishment
is a symbolic door as well, for those who come through it declare by entering
that unless they put forth evidence to the contrary, they will be open
for conversation with unacquainted others for the duration of their stay.
Whatever their age, sex or apparent position, their biographical blemishes
or physical stigmas, all who enter are immediately vested with the status
of an open person [58] open both in having the right
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to make contact with the others present and the general obligation
of being open to others who may contact them. To decline the status of
being open, to demand that one remain uncontacted requires work of a particular
kind, for the assumption that one will not be contacted by another without
good reason is unfounded within the bar. Those who desire to avoid the
overtures of others must be able to distinguish themselves from the others
present, for the general rule of civil inattention [59] is held in abeyance,
and not only idle glances at other patrons but also idle glances at features
and fixtures of the establishment all convey one's openness. There are
no protective goods, no newspapers, letters and books to serve as an alternative
form of involvement.[60] If such props are used, they may themselves serve
as grounds for initial overtures of sociability.
A middle-aged woman was sitting by herself, thumbing through
a large book of Steinberg cartoons. A man sitting at the other end of the
bar came over, asked her what she was looking at and then joined her.[61]
Not infrequently, what would pass for civil inattention in other
settings is taken as an invitation for interaction in the bar. Thus in
most cases entering patrons are either completely ignored, remaining entirely
unacknowledged by those already present, or they are gazed at in such a
way as to be extended an invitation to join or at least to respond to the
gazer.
In most establishments in San Francisco, the physical bar structure
forms the center of social gravity, and it is here that the greatest amount
of contact occurs between strangers on the premises. Thus one solution
to the problem of setting oneself apart from the sociability of the establishment
is to
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avoid the bar itself and sit at the tables and booths available for
just this purpose. But it is rare to find solitary individuals seated at
tables and booths. In most instances it is couples or larger groups desiring
to remain self-contained who utilize the seating facilities away from the
bar. Those solitary individuals who do locate themselves away from the
bar are generally assumed to be waiting for some one, and they often give
such a reason for their choice of seating.
There were about ten empty stools at the bar; one couple and
a number of larger groups were seated at the tables and booths. A solitary
male entered, stood by the door for a moment, and then went to sit at one
of the vacant tables. When the cocktail waitress came over to him he said
in a very audible voice, "Oh, I might as well order while I wait."
I had been sitting at one of the tables by myself for about a half hour
when the cocktail waitress came over to me in a rather matter-of-fact manner
and asked, "Are you waiting for Jack Wilson?"
The solitary individual who desires to remain alone for the duration
of his stay will ordinarily seat himself at the bar, like those who are
more open for interaction, but he will sit in a particular posture. Unlike
those who are open for interaction, the solitary drinker typically minimizes
the amount of physical space he takes up at the bar. He will sit with his
forearms either resting on the edge of the bar, or flat on the bar before
him, his upper torso hunched slightly forward over the bar, with all of
his drinking accoutrements (drink, cigarettes, change, ashtray and the
like) contained within the area before him, The area delimited by the inner
sides of his arms defines his visual focus as well, for transitory eye
contact is not defined as civil inattention in the public drinking place;
if the solitary patron is caught in eye contact by another, his whole posture
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a necessary prelude to an encounter in the public drinking place, it
is sufficient to discredit the display that is used to decline the status
of being open.
The encounters begun among the unacquainted in public drinking places,
Eke those in any other setting, have variable careers. They may remain
momentary interchanges, or may develop into something more, perhaps even
into a lifelong relationship which transcends the setting itself. But most
remain momentary interchanges. The corollary to the rule that no patron
is a priori exempt from overtures of sociability on the part of any other
patron is the rule that no patron is a priori committed to an encounter
with any other patron. Just as it requires active work for patrons to decline
the definition of being open for interaction, so too does it require active
work for them to maintain an encounter once it has begun.
Most encounters between unacquainted patrons begin with a "remark,"
a brief, casual statement which, while it is directed to alter by ego,
requires no verbal response from alter. These remarks are usually commentaries
on the present scene which carry with them the option of either a verbal
counter-remark or a gestural acknowledgment that the first remark has been
put forth, The choice of response which alter makes to ego7s remark is
taken to indicate whether an encounter of more than momentary duration
can be expected between them there and then. If alter replies verbally,
an exchange of interchanges, and hence an encounter of more than momentary
duration, will have begun; for while alter has an option in his choice
of response to ego's original remark, ego, once he has put himself forth
by his first remark as one seeking an encounter, has no similar option
with respect to alter's counter-remark. He is expected to reply to it verbally.
But after ego's verbal reply to alter's counter-remark, the extent of the
encounter between them is variable. All other things being equal, the encounter
may be terminated by either ego or alter at any time after this third statement
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If, on the other hand, alter merely responds to ego's remark with a
nod, a glance, or a tentative smile, the response will be taken by ego
to indicate alter's reluctance to engage in any prolonged encounter between
them at that time. But alter's gestural response to ego's remarks does
not carry with it alter's absolution from any further remarks directed
to him by ego. After a period of grace, and if the two remain within communication
distance,[62] ego
may direct another remark to alter without fear that he will be characterized
by alter as "pushy". Thus it is possible for an
entire afternoon or evening to be composed of such partial encounters of
remarks and gestural responses between two patrons, for alter, by his presence
in the public drinking place, has forfeited any claim to an order which
would provide him with a basis for indignation in the face of continued
remarks directed to him by ego.[63]
While remarks are statements directed specifically to another within
communication distance, bar encounters between the unacquainted may also
begin by "declaractions." Declaractions are quite like remarks in content,
but they are made to the collectivity at large rather than to any specific
patron. Frequently, declaractions have the appearance of being made to
the bartender, but they are typically made when the distance between the
person making the declaraction and the bartender exceeds the customary
communication distance. Hence the declaraction must be made in a loud and
clear voice which is audible to all.
Like remarks, declarations are used for the initiation of encounters.
However, since they are made to the collectivity at large, they require
no response from any specific patron. Unlike
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the remark, they can be completely ignored and do not require a gestural
response even from those in the immediate vicinity of the person making
the declaraction. In part because they do not require or elicit any response
(unless an encounter is to develop from one patron's declaraction), they
are generally one-shot attempts. Once a patron has made a declaraction,
usually he will not make another unless a verbal response is forthcoming.
Terminations
No matter who initiates an encounter, either person may terminate
it at any time, unless one participant has lessened the physical distance
between himself and the other or has been made the recipient of a gift
drink. The general rule that either participant may terminate may thus
make those present more amenable to entering an encounter in the first
place, insofar as withdrawal cannot easily be construed as an offense to
either participant.[64]
Since the public drinking place is defined as an area where all present
are mutually open, anyone has the right to initiate contact with anyone
else and those so contacted are obliged to accept such contact. The patterns
of social distance which are predicated upon and in return support a hierarchal
order of statuses are legitimately ignored. Whatever statuses of regard
Or disregard patrons might claim or be accorded outside the setting are
effectively held in abeyance during the duration of their stay, making
everyone present the Social equal of everyone else and absolving all
of the necessity of paying deference to any apparent social position.
At the same time, little deference need be paid to any pre-
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existing relationships. The majority of patrons are strangers who are
not merely unacquainted but are not likely to become
acquainted outside the bar. Their lives generally have little overlap
beyond their mutual presence in the immediate setting. But even for those
whose lives outside the public drinking place are tangential or interrelated,
their mutual openness, by divesting them of social position in relation
to each other, abridges any relationships that might exist. Consequently,
participation in bar encounters is not predicated on any claims or considerations
associated with preexisting positions or relationships that require showing
an interest where no interest exists. There is, as it were, no effective
pre-existing commitment to require maintenance of an encounter beyond the
point of waning interest. Hence there are no proprieties that automatically
allocate to one participant or another control over the termination of
an ongoing encounter.[65]
Occasionally, encounters in public drinking places are terminated in
ceremonial fashion, similar to the ceremonial terminations of encounters
outside the bar. Patrons whose interest in the encounter has waned, or
who must leave because their future time is committed to some other activity
or setting, may await an appropriate moment--a moment which allows the other
to ratify the impending termination--and then say, "Well, it's been nice
talking to you, I have to leave now. Hope to see you again," and leave
the premises with a final nod and a smile to the other. But more frequently
encounters in public drinking places are terminated by much less explicit
leave-taking ceremonies, whether or not the participants may be leaving
the premises.
Generally, this leave-taking is not accompanied by any verbal statements,
For example, if a patron is leaving the premises or changing his location
within the establishment, the
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termination of an ongoing encounter may be signified only by FM the
patron gathering up his possessions from the bar (change money, cigarettes,
matches, etc.). Such activity is usually understood by the other to mean
that the encounter has come to an end, although nothing may have been said
before the activity started and nothing may be said afterward. Talk simply
ceases when the collection of goods and possessions begins. He who is about
to move may offer the other a curt nod as he gets up, but this is not obligatory
and frequently not possible. Typically, the other will become involved
in some activity such as finishing his drink, lighting a cigarette, or
instigating an encounter with another, permitting ego's departure to occur
silently and unobtrusively. However, unless one verbally declares before
he physically moves that he will socially return (as, for example, saying,
"I'm just going to the bathroom," or "I only want to get a pack of cigarettes"),
even temporary departures are conventionally read as having effectively
terminated the encounter.[66]
Once the other has returned to the spatial
proximity the two share, any further talk between them requires the same
ceremonial opening that began the initial conversation.
While bar encounters are most frequently terminated by spatial
separation, they may be ended by nothing more than mutual silence. As a
practical problem, such termination silence is often difficult to distinguish
from a conversation lull. Both have the same form--moments of mutual silence
which exist within ongoing encounters. This is particularly true for 11
patrons seated along the bar, since encounters begun between patrons seated
side by side may involve only sporadic eye contact, if any. The absence
of sustained eye contact precludes
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any decisive termination by means of discontinuing such contact. Becoming
involved with one's drink or toying with a glass or ashtray is equally
ambiguous, for such activities are frequently used to smooth over routine
conversational lulls as well. Thus both conversation lulls and actual terminal
silences pose a question for the participants: Is an encounter between
them still in progress? There is nothing to indicate whether the quietness
shows a loss of interest in the topic under discussion or a loss of interest
in the encounter as such.
The solution is usually to treat all moments of mutual silence in ongoing
encounters as termination points, a solution which generates the peculiar
tenor of bar conversation. As noted before, the termination of one encounter
does not preclude the instigation of another with a given patron as long
as he remains within conversational distance. After a period of grace,
either patron has the option of putting forth a new remark as a means of
beginning a new encounter. But since conversation lulls are typically treated
as if they were termination points, the interaction between two patrons
in a public drinking place, whether it represents one continuous encounter
or a series of sequential encounters, routinely has the patterns of remark/
counter-remark/ interchange/ silence/ remark/ counter-remark/ etc. Silences
are thus treated as if the other participant had physically departed and
another patron were now in his place, that is, as if a totally new encounter
had begun.
This characteristic form of bar encounters affects their substantive
content as well. Since remarks are the most casual and general of statements,
the topics of discussion they generate are equally casual and general.
The typical topics (such as the weather, spectator sports, popular music
and gossip) require little beyond personal interest to sustain them and
have little, if any, consequential import for the daily lives of the
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and more specific level customarily remain general. Bar talk is essentially
small talk, as the following exerpts of bar conversations overheard and
engaged in attest:[67]
Three men talked mainly of two men at the far end of the bar
playing poker dice--specifically, how long they had been playing.
A man and a couple talked for almost fifteen minutes about the rain
and about rain in various communities in which they had lived.
A woman talked to me for over a half hour on the care, feeding, personality
and problems of her four cats.
The bartender told me about some of the records on the juke box. (This
occurred on a number of occasions in a number of establishments.)
A woman told us about the comic strip "Peanuts."
Two men talked about football for almost an hour.
A man talked to me about how crowded the bar was. (This again on a number
of occasions and in a number of establishments.)
[68]
In part, the inconsequential character of the topics of conversations held
in public drinking places ensues from the
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problem of locating subjects on which verbal engagements can take place
with total strangers. In the absence of prior information about matters
of mutual interest or knowledge, the more innocuous the topic, the greater
the probability it can serve as a vehicle for talk. The small talk of acquaintances
can cover a broader range of subject matter because areas of mutuality
have already been staked out. The small talk of strangers often revolves
around the present scene or current events because these are among the
few areas where there is some probability of mutual interest or knowledge.
The absence of pre-existing commitments predisposes encounters in
public drinking places to short lives. The mutual openness of bar patrons
also characterizes their encounters and this also shortens the life span
of such interactions. Bar encounters are granted little or no conventional
closure,[69] and just as individuals are defined as open to contact, so are
their encounters defined as open to the participation of others. This is
particularly true of encounters between patron and bartender and between
patrons along the bar, but it is not uncommon to find encounters between
patrons standing or seated away from the bar also treated as if there were
nothing private about them.
Four of us had moved to one of the booths, where we sat chatting
about the music on the juke box, old movies, and a variety of other miscellaneous
subjects. During this time, one of the patrons seated at the next booth,
a patron passing by from the bar on his way to the bathroom, and two patrons
standing behind the booths entered into the conversation for a moment or
two, occasionally starting a separate encounter with one of us as well.
P.C. and I had sat down at one of the tables
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where we could watch the proceedings around the bar. Some of
the patrons had organized a limbo line, using the pool cue, and one of
the men came over to our table and asked if we wanted to join in. We declined
and he went on to say, "Yeah, it's fun to watch the monkeys." A little
later one of the other male patrons came over to the table and asked if
I would dance with him. Afterward the first man came back to the table,
put his arm around me, and began telling us that he was out celebrating
tonight,
In the absence of conventional closure, the maintenance of any specific
encounter as an ongoing state of talk between a given number of designatable
participants becomes problematic. The number of participants in a single
encounter can be increased by others who were previously engaged in separate
encounters, because the events occurring in one encounter can properly
be treated as legitimate stimuli for the invasion and comingling by the
participants of other encounters. This is often the case when such subjects
as sports are under discussion, although any topic can provide grounds
for the entrance of others and few topics, if any, are treated as too personal
for others to enter.
Sometimes one participant will move from one encounter to another,
linking the participants of each into a single en. counter. New arrivals
who may be acquainted with one or more participants in each group may have
the same effect, even though those with whom they are acquainted may not
know one another. The bartender is also instrumental in bringing conversational
groups together.
There were nine persons in groups of two and three and singles.
A Negro man came in, sat down, and began tapping a coin on the bar. Finally
he called to the bartender, who said, "I'm down here serving three people
[which he wasn't] and you come in and start that." The Negro man got up
and stalked out of the bar. When he left, the bartender said to those
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present in a general kind of way, "Was that a regular customer?"
Everyone laughed and smiled at one another; a few people exchanged remarks with others with whom they had
not been talking and then went back to their original encounters.
Occasionally non-patrons will cause two or more previously separate
ongoing encounters to become one larger encounter, as in the following
example:
A group of three men and the bartender were talking at one
end of the bar, and a second group of two men, separated by one bar stool
from the first group, were similarly engaged. The beat patrolman came in
and stood directly behind the empty stool between the two groups. He said
something indistinguishable to the bartender and then turned to the larger
group, who had the dice boxes in front of them, and said, "Oh boy, I see
you guys are gambling." Then he started telling them about a recent event
at the bar across the street, an establishment apparently of little esteem
in the eyes of the patrons of the present place. At this point the second
group joined in. After the patrolman left, the bartender left, and the
two groups continued talking (on various subjects) for about twenty minutes
more and then returned to their separate encounters.
A variety of incidents, scenes, and out-of-the-ordinary events may
generate a focus of attention for some or all of the patrons, bringing
them momentarily or for a longer time into a single encounter that may
either temporarily or permanently dissolve the boundaries of separate,
ongoing encounters.
A patron came in with a dog. He told the bartender that the
dog had followed him for three or four blocks. After a few minutes he started
buying pieces of beef jerkey for the dog, making the dog beg before he
would give the meat to him. The dog became the focus of attention, and
for a little while there was a
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general discussion among everyone in the bar on the merits
of various kinds of dogs.
There were six or seven people sitting around the piano bar (two groups
of twos and the rest singles),
m enjoying the entertainer's Playing
who seemed to be and singing. After a while one of the patrons at the
bar became louder and louder and then began to sing along with the entertainer
in such a way that the latter was completely drowned out. Finally the entertainer
stood up at the piano and said, "The singer doesn't appreciate having his
lines stepped on." This did little to daunt the patron at the bar, but
it did result in a conversation among all those at the piano bar, which
lasted for about three or four minutes.
A midget had come in and sat down at the bar next to Ruth (a woman in
her mid-fifties), He kept looking at her with adoring eyes and every so
often would lick his lips or make puckering, kiss-like gestures toward
her. Ruth finally got up and left and a few minutes later the midget left,
At this time there Were five separate groups of patrons, in twos and threes
and some alone, spaced along about three. quarters of the physical bar.
About five minutes after she left, Ruth returned, very, very angry, and
declared, ostensibly to the bartender but in a voice loud enough for
everyone to hear, "Oh. I could have hit Win. The nerve of him!" After Ruth's
declaration there was a good deal of laughter and conversation within the
groups, but once she left the bar again, comments such as "She should take
what she can get" and "At her age she should be flattered" were made between
groups. Then Alice said, "He offered her ten dollars. If that had been
me, I would have kicked him and run." By this time all the patrons in the
bar were engaged in one large conversation, first about commercial sex
and then about other topics. The large encounter continued to contain everyone
who re. remained until about ten minutes after closing time.
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in separate, smaller encounters, sometimes the separate en-counters
are never resumed, as in the example above. But the participants of the
larger encounter may also realign themselves with one another, and when
the larger encounter subsequently breaks down into smaller, separate units,
these smaller encounters may contain new participants.
In addition to participant drift, ongoing encounters may be altered
by participant confiscation. An uninvited participant entering conventional
encounters may excuse his intrusion with a ritual preface ("Excuse me,
but. . ."), which carries the tacit promise that the newcomer will leave the encounter
as he found it. Ongoing encounters in public drinking places, being defined
as open to all, do not require any ritual preface from those who enter.
Rather, uninvited participants may join without ceremony and may well appropriate
one or more of the participants for some other encounter, since the absence
of conventional boundaries implies that there is little impropriety associated
with such activity.
In summary, the rules governing behavior in public drinking places
that facilitate conversation between strangers at the same time hinder
the maintenance of encounters between the unacquainted once they have begun.
The definition of "open person" accorded to all who enter abridges the
deferential order that serves to allocate control and the procedure of
terminating encounters, and the definition of encounters as accessible
to all holds in abeyance expectations of conventional closure which serve
to delimit who is or is not a participant of any given encounter. Thus,
while sociability is available to all in the public drinking place, there
is little to guarantee that encounters between the unacquainted, once
begun, will proceed in a neat and orderly fashion. Rather, from the onset
their career is problematic, subject to a variety of contingencies that
make them always tentative and often superficial.
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encounter occurring in a public drinking place will be circumscribed
in time and space. One of the general features of bar encounters is that
their existence need never be recognized again at another time or in another
place. Regardless of the nature of the encounter--whether it was merely
a momentary interchange or whether it extended over an entire evening,
whether it consisted of no more than an idle chat or whether it consisted
of gaming, dancing, or treating as well--in the whether it consisted of no
more than an idle chat or whether establishment, or in the same establishment
at some other time, the participants are not obliged to recognize one another
in any way or make any indication that some form of mutual activity existed
between them on a prior occasion. Like spies in alien territory, once out
of a bar encounter the participants typically refrain from showing any
recognition of the other.[70]
Annie and Frank, to whom we had talked a few times at the bar
across the street, were seated two Stools away. Neither made any indication
that they recognized us.
Bill and Al, with whom I had spent about two hours at a bar down the
street only a few days previously and who had, on the last occasion, bought
me a couple of drinks, were present, standing about four feet from where
I was sitting. Neither made any indication they had ever seen me before.
Nick, who had introduced himself to me and with whom I had danced one
night, was here, but said nothing to me, nor did he "apparently", recognize
me.
Dave, with whom we had spent most of the evening talking the last
time we were here, came in with another fellow. They sat down one stool
away from us, but Dave gave no indication that he recognized us.
Henry, with whom I had been talking on and off for almost an hour at
a bar next door earlier in the
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evening and who, before he left, had offered a general invitation
to my husband and me to "come and have dinner at my place some time" was
seated by the door as we entered the bar. He made no indication that he
had ever seen me before, much less that he had extended a dinner invitation
to us.
Cuts of this kind are taboo in other settings.[71]
If a new encounter begins between bar patrons who had been engaged
in another encounter at some previous time, recognition of that earlier
encounter may be expressed. However, the existence of an earlier encounter
conventionally carries no greater right to initiate a new encounter in
the bar setting than the right already established by the bar patron's
openness. And it carries no right whatever to initiate an encounter outside
the bar setting.
There may be, in any establishment, a core of regulars whose continual
presence in the setting may result in their eventual recognition of each
other. But even among such groups, failure to acknowledge the other is
neither uncommon nor an impropriety, as the following example indicates:
A group of three or four men and the late-duty bartender were
sitting at the far end of the bar, talking. A man came in alone, sat down
about three stools away from the group, and ordered. He began his drink,
apparently paying no heed to the group at the end of the bar. After about
five or ten minutes the late-duty bartender called down to him, saying,
"Hey, Fred, aren't you even going to say hello," and the rest of the group
laughed at the bartender's statement.
Even where an acquaintance relationship exists for two patrons outside
the bar setting, their mutual presence in the public drinking place need
not necessarily be acknowledged.
Stan, whom I had met a few times at Morrie's
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house as well as at another bar, made no sign that he saw me in the
bar, either when he came in or when he left, although I was looking right
at him.
Whether persons who are acquainted outside the bar will or will not
acknowledge one another may be a consequence of the nature of their relationship.
Those who fall into the category of "mere" or "casual" acquaintances
are apparently less likely to acknowledge others in the bar than are those
who consider one another "good friends." This, of course, does not contradict
the statement that the openness of patrons in the public drinking place
abridges hierarchal relationships that exist outside the setting, inasmuch
as those whose relationships are denoted as "friendships" characteristically
treat one another on an equalitarian basis in the first place.
Often social acknowledgment will be proffered to those known outside
the bar when the one instigating the action is leaving and his impending
exit prohibits more than a fleeting nod or perhaps a handshake. The following
example comes from a popular bar located in the vicinity of the civic center
that draws the majority of its patrons from those who work in the numerous
offices in the area.
Two men and one woman were sitting at one of the tables near
the door. They were apparently known to about five or six men who were
present, for when these other patrons were leaving they would pause by
the table momentarily and nod or shake hands with the two men and then
go on through the door. None of these men paid any apparent attention to
the group before they were leaving, however in spite of the fact that the
table at which the group was sitting-was entirely visible to anyone present.
Thus as a result of the assumption that the bar is unserious--that
it is time out from consequential life--conversations encounters and acquaintanceships
take on a particular flavor. They are in effect trivialized in a way that
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[57]
Erving Goffman. Behavior in Public Places (New York: The Free Press,
1963), pp. 131-132. This goes beyond the obligation not to snub the other,
requiring that those approached be open to a more protracted interaction.
[58]
This is to say, available for interaction with anyone else present. Goffman (ibid, pp. 125-126) says of the old and the very young, who are sometimes defined as open persons, that they "seem to be considered so meager in sacred value that it may be thought their members have nothing to lose through face engagement and hence can be engaged at will." Given the moral repute of the public drinking place, such might be applicable to the bar patron as well.
[59]
Ibid., pp. 84, 95.
[60]
See Ibid, pp. 138-139, on the use of such devices in open regions.
[61]
Quoted materials, unless otherwise cited, are excerpts from field
notes.
[62]
This is equivalent to about three bar stools. See Chapter 5.
[63]
In some respects, many of the features of participant accessibility
which are present in the public drinking place are present on the ocean
liner as well--but not all. Apparently those on the ship still maintain
a general right to be absolved from contact with others. Cf. Amy Vanderbilt,
New Complete Book of Etiquette (Garden City, N.Y.: Doubleday, 1960), pp.
667-668.
[64]
Cf. Erving Goffman, Communication Conduct in an Island Community
(unpublished Ph.D. dissertation, University of Chicago, 1953), D. 161.
[65]
Where hierarchal statuses are effective, the superordinate usually
controls the termination procedures. Cf. T. H. Pear, The Psychology of
Conversation (London: nomas Nelson & Sons, Ltd., 1939), p. 57.
[66]
Goffman (Communication Conduct, op, cit., p. 162) notes that informal
encounters frequently are ended by such spatial separation of the participants,
and if they are not ended by such means, at least their ending is confirmed.
[67]
See Bronislaw Malinowski on "phatic" communication, in Supplement
I, C. K. Ogden and I. A. Richards, The Meaning of Meaning (New York: Harcourt,
Brace and Co., n.d.). Erving Goffman has suggested that the character of
such bar conversation might be better described as "tiny talk."
[68]
In a study of English pubs, a frequency distribution of the topics of 157 conversations overheard in a variety of establishments found pubs and drinking the most frequent single topic (18 per cent) and only 22 percent of the conversations revolved around such consequential matters as jobs, money, and war. in the same study, a similar count made by B. D, Nicholson was quoted in which 37 Percent of the conversations were on the topic of sports and 33 percent on serious matters (money, politics, religion). Mass Observation, The Pub and the People (London: Victor Gollancz, Ltd., 1943), pp. 186-187.
[69]
By "conventional closure" is meant, in Goffman's terms, "some obligation and some effort on the part of both participants and by-standers to act as if the engagement were physically cut off from the rest of the situation." Behavior in Public Places, op. cit., P. 156.
[70]
Ibid., p. 113
[71]
Ibid., pp. 114-115.
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